{"id":907,"date":"2022-05-13T01:11:37","date_gmt":"2022-05-12T17:11:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.zhangruying.com\/en\/?p=907"},"modified":"2025-09-18T20:28:40","modified_gmt":"2025-09-18T12:28:40","slug":"gifts-you-must-bring-when-attending-chinese-traditional-weddings","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.zhangruying.com\/en\/907","title":{"rendered":"Gifts You Must Bring When Attending Chinese Traditional Weddings"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.zhangruying.com\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/zhangruying-Gifts-You-Must-Bring-When-Attending-Chinese-Traditional-Weddings-1.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-908\" src=\"https:\/\/www.zhangruying.com\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/zhangruying-Gifts-You-Must-Bring-When-Attending-Chinese-Traditional-Weddings-1.jpg\" alt=\"Zhang Ruying - Gifts You Must Bring When Attending Chinese Traditional Weddings - 1\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" title=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.zhangruying.com\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/zhangruying-Gifts-You-Must-Bring-When-Attending-Chinese-Traditional-Weddings-1.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.zhangruying.com\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/zhangruying-Gifts-You-Must-Bring-When-Attending-Chinese-Traditional-Weddings-1-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.zhangruying.com\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/zhangruying-Gifts-You-Must-Bring-When-Attending-Chinese-Traditional-Weddings-1-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.zhangruying.com\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/zhangruying-Gifts-You-Must-Bring-When-Attending-Chinese-Traditional-Weddings-1-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.zhangruying.com\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/zhangruying-Gifts-You-Must-Bring-When-Attending-Chinese-Traditional-Weddings-1-200x200.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>If you are invited to a traditional Chinese wedding, you may be confused about the customs and etiquette of choosing a gift.<\/p>\n<p>For most weddings, all you need to bring is a red envelope with enough money to cover your expenses at the wedding. However, special circumstances may require a different reward. The information below will help ensure you make the right choice.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Red envelope, standard gift<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Choosing a gift for a traditional Chinese wedding is usually quite simple.<\/p>\n<p>Instead of gifts, guests usually give red envelopes called Hongbao\/Angpao (Hanzi: \u7ea2\u5305, pinyin: H\u00f3ngb\u0101o) with the words double happiness (Hanzi: \u53cc\u559c, pinyin: Shu\u0101ngx\u01d0).<\/p>\n<p>If you are going to a traditional Chinese wedding, the money in a red envelope should have a value equivalent to a nice gift that would be given at a western-style wedding.<\/p>\n<p>The money should also be enough to cover your expenses at the wedding (for example, your food and drink). Determining the right amount of money to give is not simple.<\/p>\n<p>Usually, the amount of money given is also influenced by your relationship with the recipient.<\/p>\n<p>The closer your relationship with the bride and groom, the more money is given. Close family, such as parents and siblings, usually give more than ordinary friends.<\/p>\n<p>In addition, it is not uncommon for business partners to be invited to weddings, and business partners often put more money in the envelope to strengthen the business relationship.<\/p>\n<p>In Chinese tradition, some numbers are considered luckier than others.<\/p>\n<p>If you want, you can give a number with a lucky number like eight or nine. Avoid unlucky numbers like four.<\/p>\n<p>Numbers like 88, for example, are considered to bring good luck.<\/p>\n<p><strong>More Gift Options<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Currently, traditional Chinese wedding gifts are not always red packets. You can also give wedding gifts in the form of physical or digital goods. Items that the couple needs or wants.<\/p>\n<p>In order not to be wrong, of course, it is necessary to know for sure what is needed\/wanted by the married market. Be careful when choosing gifts, as there are certain gifts to avoid in Chinese culture.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Prohibited gifts include:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Clock<\/li>\n<li>Umbrella<\/li>\n<li>Sharp object<\/li>\n<li>Cut flowers<\/li>\n<li>Gifts in sets of four (the Chinese word \u201cfour\u201d is pronounced similarly to the word for \u201cdeath\u201d)<\/li>\n<li>Shoe<\/li>\n<li>Green hat<\/li>\n<li>A thing in white or black<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>If you have decided to give an item as a wedding gift, try to coordinate with other guests in advance to avoid duplicate gifts.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If you are invited to a traditional Chinese wedding, you may be confused about the customs and etiquette of choosing&#46;&#46;&#46;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":38,"featured_media":908,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[440],"tags":[342,432,647,34,43,29,345,348,847,349],"class_list":["post-907","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-animation-illustration","tag-chineese-wedding","tag-couple-illustration","tag-cute-illustration","tag-digital-illustration","tag-hanfu","tag-illustration","tag-traditional-wedding","tag-wedding","tag-wedding-gift","tag-wedding-illustration"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.zhangruying.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/907","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.zhangruying.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.zhangruying.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.zhangruying.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/38"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.zhangruying.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=907"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.zhangruying.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/907\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.zhangruying.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/908"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.zhangruying.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=907"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.zhangruying.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=907"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.zhangruying.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=907"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}